Diane Kalas, Inspirational Historical Romance Author

“But it is good for me to draw near to God; I have put my trust in the Lord God, that I may declare all thy works." Psalm 73:28 (KJV)






Friday, April 5, 2013

19th CENTURY ETIQUETTE - CHURCH OR FANCY FAIRS



Diane's Antique Book Collection

ETIQUETTE OF PUBLIC PLACES

Church or Fancy Fairs.- In visiting a fancy fair make no comments on either the articles or their price unless you can praise. Do not haggle over them. Pay the price demanded or let them alone. If you can conscientiously praise an article, by all means do so, as you may be giving pleasure to the maker if she chances to be within hearing.

Be guilty of no loud talking or laughing, and by all means avoid conspicuous flirting in so public a place.

 As, according to the general rules of politeness, a gentleman, must always remove his hat in the presence of ladies, so he should remain with head uncovered, carrying his hat in his hand, in a public place of this character.

 If you have a table at a fair, use no unlady like means to obtain buyers. Let a negative suffice. Not even the demands of charity can justify you in importuning others to purchase articles against their own judgment or beyond their means to purchase.

 Never be so grossly ill-bred as to retain the change if a large amount is presented than the price. Offer the change promptly, when the gentleman will be at liberty to donate it if he thinks best, and you may accept it with thanks. He is, however, under no obligation whatever to make such donation.

 Wells, A. M., Richard A., MANNERS, CULTURE AND DRESS, Massachusetts, King, Richardson & Company Publishers, 1893

 

1 comment:

Mocha with Linda said...

"...can justify you in importuning others to purchase articles against their own judgment or beyond their means to purchase."

Would that some of today's salespeople would remember this! LOL